Wedding Chapel Wednesday: Proof That They Married

Wedding Chapel Wednesday: Proof That They Married

If you’ve done research in a place where a disaster has struck, then you know the difficulty I experienced trying to find my Great Great Grandparent’s marriage record.  The 1906 San Francisco earthquake and fire not only wiped out many government records, but church records as well.  The ability to use one or the other to identify a marriage is almost non-existent prior to 1906.

This is where newspapers come in.  As more and more newspapers are being digitized, indexed, and put on the internet, researching them is getting much easier all the time.  It turned to newspapers when I realized that there was probably no official record of my Great Great Grandparent’s marriage.

Jim Faulkinbury has spent many years indexed the vital records in the San Francisco Call, one of the early San Francisco newspapers.  He has made those indexes available on the web.  In searching his index, I found this entry:

Jones, Thomas A. … married in 1869 to Kelly, Margaret … 1869M-795

The date fit with information I had found in the census and city directories.

I ordered a copy of the marriage entry from Jim and was sent this copy:

It gives me the date that they married, 7 Feb 1869 (a Saturday).  It even tells me who they were married by, Father Scanlon.  I’m not entirely sure but Father Scanlon probably was stationed at St. Patrick’s church in San Francisco.

It may not be a marriage certificate, but given the time period, this is probably all I would learn from it anyway.  They were incredibly skimpy on details in early California.

It’s satisfying to have tracked down this proof that they married.  Of course, I had plenty of documentation and family stories that said they were married.  But it’s nice to know that they really did!


Jim Faulkinbury’s San Francisco Call Vital Statistics Index

Marriage Announcement in the Sacramento Union Newspaper


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